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    Post by genkicoll Thu Jul 17, 2014 2:58 pm

    The file has (finally!) been sent on to USDA (Rural Housing Loan,) and the turnaround time is...

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    25 business days! Gah!  That means we're looking at closing on August 21st (at the latest, I hope!)

    I'm trying to figure out, now, how much it's going to cost us to keep our 4% interest rate, which was only locked in until August 1st. Sigh


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    Post by Frodo Thu Jul 17, 2014 3:12 pm

    Sorry this is causing you so much stress Genki   Hug 

    Since the delay is beyond your control, could you ask them to keep the 4% interest rate?   Hmm...
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    Post by genkicoll Thu Jul 17, 2014 3:20 pm

    Pfft.  This is the banking business we're talking about here.  All they care about is making money, and I don't think there's any way to negotiate with them on it.  Yeah right


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    Post by pippi Thu Jul 17, 2014 3:21 pm

    I'd still ask the bank to extend the locked rate.  Or check to see if it's lower ... and get a new lock ASAP.

    EDIT:  Today's rates are 3.5% for 15 year fixed, and 4.025% for 30 year fixed.  I didn't search for a 20 year rate ... but the 15 year fixeds were as low as 3.125%.  You may be better off locking a new rate now ... you could come in UNDER 4%


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    Post by genkicoll Thu Jul 17, 2014 3:35 pm

    I've sent an e-mail to our loan officer to let me know what we can do.  My understanding is that we can extend the 4% interest rate, but it will cost us... I just don't know how much, yet Sweat drop

    EDIT: 
    The rates have actually gone up a bit – so we do indeed want to maintain the great rate we’ve secured.  The cost to extend that great rate is 0.125% of the loan amount for every 7 days – or $186.15 for each 7 days we need.

    So we're looking at up to $558.45, based upon an August 21st closing date. Cry  It's much better than paying a higher interest rate, but I'm praying that the house closes MUCH earlier than they're anticipating!


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    Post by tesamoine Thu Jul 17, 2014 10:11 pm

    Happy bounce Congrats Genki !!!!!  I can imagine the stress you have been under.  Hopefully the rest goes smoothly.   Big smile  Big smile
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    Post by genkicoll Fri Jul 18, 2014 11:28 am

    We've made an agreement with the owner, and will be moving in next weekend (and paying rent) through the proposed closing date.  Garage sale this weekend, moving the next... Life is hectic!


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    Post by Frodo Fri Jul 18, 2014 9:33 pm

    But you'll soon be in your new house.  Excellent to hear.   Happy bounce
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    Post by jessmom01 Sat Jul 19, 2014 12:44 pm

    oh Genki, closer & closer... you'll be in & settled soon, yay  Happy bounce !!  Thanks for keeping us up to speed on everything here while your brains must be rattling sometimes from all the stuff happening in RL.  You're amazing, & so deserving of the good things coming  Offering
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    Post by genkicoll Sat Jul 19, 2014 7:10 pm

    I am exhaused; completely drained.  I was tired at 11:45 this morning, and we just kept plugging along until 6.  What to do, we have no choice!  This stuff MUST be done, and I feel guilty just sitting here taking a break! Laugh 

    I got "robbed" by a little old lady that lives half a block away, who bought a glass-top dining table and SIX rattan chairs for $70! faints  Highway robbery, BUT, we need the money, and it means we don't have to move it to the new place (where we wouldn't have had room for it, anyway!)  We even delivered it for her!

    More of the same for tomorrow, and of course next weekend.  Maybe then we can actually rest a little bit!


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    Post by volnole68 Mon Jul 21, 2014 5:31 am

    Genki I am so sorry for all this agony! Just keep your eyes focused on the move. Will continue to pray for all of you!!
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    Post by kac Tue Jul 22, 2014 5:40 pm

    It is a major job moving.  Ideally, I would like a bigger place, but I don't want to pack everything up and move again.
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    Post by RenaissanceMom Tue Jul 22, 2014 8:17 pm

    Wishing you smooth(er) sailing from here on in, Genki.  Hug
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    Post by Sable Wed Jul 23, 2014 5:49 am

    Gotta watch out for us little old ladies, genki, we're treacherous, lol.

    Seriously though, the best of luck in your move, and may you close way sooner than scheduled.  Hope you get your much-deserved rest soon.
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    Post by genkicoll Wed Jul 23, 2014 3:46 pm

    UPDATE!  Upon realizing that there is NO way we can possibly get moved over the weekend (even if we kill ourselves!), we've agreed to take our time over the next week, taking boxes and the lighter furniture, then renting a U-haul next weekend for the final move.

    A bit less hectic, and perhaps I'll be able to find a little bit of gaming time in there :D


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    Post by RenaissanceMom Wed Jul 23, 2014 4:40 pm

    Genki, I was just coming over to find out if you'd had a better day today, and am so glad that you're approaching the move in a less hectic manner. Good luck over the next few weeks and Happy Move!!!
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    Post by genkicoll Thu Aug 07, 2014 11:12 am

    So here's what's been up with me since Friday:

    There was a snafu with the phone company, and though we were assured that we'd have the phones turned on at both places through the weekend (by multiple agents,) we ended up with NO phone service until Monday, when a technician finally came by and fixed the problem.  It was just too confusing for the Century Link employees to have the service on at both places at once, apparently, and add in the fact that whomever lived here before us had THREE separate phone numbers, and there you have it.  I have been assured that those three days will be credited to my account... which is good, 'cause I would've pitched a fit, otherwise Silly face

    Saturday was move-in day, and as some of you know, that didn't go all that well.  We got a really late start, and an even later end to the day, but we DID manage to get the girls' room all set up before sis brought them home (THANK GOD!)  My husband was just sure that the neighbors at the old place were watching and were going to swoop in and steal anything of value that got left behind, so he stayed out working until about after 11 PM... and that's WITH sis and her son (who was already past exhaustion) helping and keeping an eye on my hubby.  The both told me separately that hubby would have ended up with heat stroke if they hadn't gone back -- he was pushing so hard that his eyes were glazing over when they got back to him. :(  *siiigh*

    Hubby got home at last, we got the girls to bed, and hubby HAD to have a shower before bed because he was just so incredibly sweaty and gross-feeling.  You know how a good show revitalizes! Big smile  The shower was great, but the water wouldn't turn off!  It was *blasting* and even both of us fiddling with it barely got it to ease up.  Have I mentioned that we have a 900-gallon septic tank?  What could we do but call the landlord?  ... who is in Alaska... and wasn't answering his phone.

    We had no choice but to call my dad, who did his best to help us find a plumber who was in Dallas (remember: no internet here!)  It was after midnight, and after he gave me four numbers, I told him that was enough, thank you, and started calling.  All four of them were answering machines ^_^; so I had to wake up Dad... again (poor guy.)  He gave me more numbers, this time expanding the search to another town, and I tried again.  This time I got a person!  Yay!  ... except that their office was in NEWBERG (far away).  She said that they might have someone in the area, and would have someone call us.  GAH!  Fine. Bobby tried to turn off the water main, but it was just too hard to turn the handle. So we waited... for about five minutes, then went to bed.  I didn't get into a good sleep until about 3:30 AM, and then I finally got a phone call at about 7:30, from the woman that worked for the plumbers.  Did they ever call?  No?  Well sorry, but we're really busy, and can't get you in until Wednesday.  Told her to forget it, and since it was too early to call anyone to help, I just left everyone sleeping (and the water still running) and went to get another load of stuff from the old house.


    Now, whilst I was away loading the truck, hubby got a hold of a plumber who said he could be by the house in about half an hour, so I finished up my load, hubby took my place, and I commenced to wait for the plumber from Jim's Plumbing to come.  He came.  He saw.  He turned off the water Silly face  Upon inspection, it turns out that that when Dave (the owner's boyfriend) fixed the tub, he reinstalled the knobs wrong.  The plumber's boss, Jim himself, showed up and explained that just replacing the hardware wouldn't be enough -- the valve needed to be replaced, which meant cutting a square out of the wall on the other side of the shower.  I told him to do it, and authorized new hardware, too -- of a kind that will not let anyone get scalded if someone, say, flushes a toilet whilst they are getting a shower. 

    A lot happened after that, but the important thing is that when he opened up the wall, he found damage.  Recent damage.  It turns out that Dave had put the hardware back on wrong, and it was causing damage inside the wall.  Argh!  That made the job much bigger, and the poor man was here for hours and hours trying to get everything working properly.  When he was finally, finally done, I asked him to look at a few more things that were possible issues, and no big deal, but the last thing I asked him to do was crawl under the house and make sure that Dave properly repaired where the tub was leaking under the house.  Well, Dave messed up the plumbing in the bathroom, so I think I had a good reason to ask, and since it would only take a few minutes to look, under the house the guy went!

    Poor, poor man.  He'd already been working in a stuffy bathroom for over five hours, then belly-crawling under the house in this horrible heat we've been having... and he's not a little guy!  Tall and buffed out, I'm sure it was a tight fit!  When he came out he was sweating profusely and nearly hyperventilating! :(  So what's the news?  Did Dave do a good job?  It turns out that...

    ... no.  He didn't.  As a matter of fact, it's leaking in TWO places under there!  AHHHHHHHHHHHHH!! Gah!   Well, I wasn't about to ask that poor man to stay and fix it.  It was after five, and he was clearly exhausted, and besides... I feel like I need to give Dave the opportunity to address this since it's not an emergency.  He WILL take care of it properly this time, though -- it was in the contract that he would repair it (or have it repaired) so he HAS to address it.

    In the meantime, youngest (non-verbal autistic) desperately wanted to go out (but couldn't since I couldn't leave the house) and the phone company showed up to finally fix the phone lines (which I already mentioned,) really adding to the chaos here!

    When the day was done, I had to give the plumber $768, which I know I'm going to have to fight the current owner over, but her boyfriend CAUSED the problem, AND didn't fix the problem under the house like he said he would! meh

    Speaking of owning houses, the bank e-mailed me yesterday to let me know that the USDA has JUST gotten to the files submitted on July 1st... and ours was submitted on July 17th!  Sweat drop   Lord I hope they move quickly over there at USDA -- It's costing me $187 a week to keep my 4% interest rate, not to mention the fact that the rent here at the new place will jump up another hundred dollars if we go past the 26th of the month... and they don't want to prorate it, meaning they want over a thousand dollars in rent money, even if the deal closes a week after we pay them faints 

    There IS good news in all of this, though!  We love the new place, and our non-verbal is doing VERY well with the transition.  That part's EXTRA good news!  Okay   Sunny


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    Post by kac Thu Aug 07, 2014 11:58 am

    Genki, I'm exhausted reading all that.  What a stress filled couple of days.  I hope everything gets fixed easy and the loan quickly comes through.  I hope things are smooth sailing for this point on.
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    Post by volnole68 Sat Aug 09, 2014 8:02 am

    I am also totally exhausted for you! I am glad you like the place and especially glad about your nonverbal DD liking it.  I am glad also that you are staying on top of everything so well.  Just hang in there.....this will all be really funny later on!!   Hug
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    Post by genkicoll Wed Aug 20, 2014 9:51 am

    Just a little update:  The house has STILL not closed, and if it doesn't do so by Tuesday (the 26th,) we'll have to pay another $372.30 to keep our 4% interest rate  faint dead away  ... AND the owners are going to want over a thousand dollars for rent (more than our mortgage will be)! :(

    Stresssssss~!!


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    Post by luvtoread Wed Aug 20, 2014 1:28 pm

    Good Grief.....I am exhausted just sitting here reading this!!

    I'll be honest....I really thought the plumber's bill would be higher.    Gah!   You'd better get your
    money back..... rollingpin 

    I just had a thought.    This Dave person...seeing he screwed up the plumbing...couldn't that
    come out of the  $1,000 rent?   They will have to pay you back anyway,   right?

    I hope this is all settled soon.  We are stressing out with you.    Wish we could give you
    some of esme's  muffin's.
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    Post by Frodo Wed Aug 20, 2014 1:48 pm

    Ack, I really feel for you Genki.   Hug 

    Really hope it gets done by Tueday  Okay
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    Post by genkicoll Wed Aug 20, 2014 2:12 pm

    I e-mailed our banker this morning, and she said that she doubts it will be done by Tuesday Sigh

    On the plus side, our youngest has been much calmer since we moved to the new place, with fewer behavior problems. Happy bounce


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    Post by genkicoll Fri Aug 22, 2014 5:01 pm

    luvtoread wrote:I just had a thought.    This Dave person...seeing he screwed up the plumbing...couldn't that
    come out of the  $1,000 rent?   They will have to pay you back anyway,   right?

    Sorry luv, I didn't see this 'til now!  I paid the plumber with closing cost money, and the owner has signed an agreement to pay that portion of our closing costs. Smile


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    Post by RenaissanceMom Fri Aug 22, 2014 7:25 pm

    Wow, Genki! So sorry you've had to deal with this but my understanding is that most house move-in's are fraught with delays, tension (aka STRESS) and those ever-popular unexpected extra costs.  Sigh

    Here's wishing you no more of the above! What a blessing that your girls are taking the move well!!

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