I am still arguing with myself about posting this
in light of the horrific events in Las Vegas ..
but one thing that I have learned over the years
balance is important ...
I had been muttering about the right to bear arms
and how it was appropriate in the 1700's but creates havoc now
hence the pun, son
overwhelming grief and sadness can bury us
but Life is balance ...
during the war, rigorous interpersonal relationships were at a fever pitch
being surrounded by so much death ... this was a life affirming act
bringing some balance and hope
when my ex just left for no good reason IMHO
what helped me was thinking that at least he did not bugger up ANOTHER day in my lfe
the 8th was a devastating day for me in the past ... which he repeated
hopefully no one was offended by my humour
as with the ex .. I still think it's funny