watching his staff try to clean up his mess yet again is painful ...
and again 45 is DISGUSTING !!!
as well as self absorbed to the nth* degree [ n is for nauseating ]
lessons when dealing with profound grief and loss ..
1. I am sorry for your loss
2. how can I help ?
just being there in silence is often enough .. so they are not alone
less is more ... sometimes your silent presence is sufficient ...
plus the comfort of a hug or gentle touch